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Children of different ages will react to the move differently.
It is important that you are attentive to their needs and feelings.
More so than with teens, you'll need to sit down and discuss the events
of your move with younger children.
Toddlers will be old enough to sense changes in their environments.
Since they spend most of their days with at least one parent, it's
important not to neglect them. Otherwise, when they see the house
in disarray and gradually getting emptier, they may worry about being
left behind. Quickly allay their fears by keeping their favorite toys
around and trying to keep as stable a household as you can during
the planning and packing. As long as toddlers are comfortable and
are close to their parents, they will not be affected by the move.
Let him pack and tote along some of his special possessions (do not
discard any of them before the move, no matter how old and tattered
they are).
Elementary school children have developed relationships with people
outside of their homes. Leaving their friends will be difficult but
the idea of moving to a different place can be exciting.
Since school is the primary place where children make friends, children
in this age-range tend to have the easiest time making friends. They
spend most of their time in school with the same classmates and the
same teacher. Relationships develop naturally.
Children in this age-range should also be active participants in the
move. Allow them to pack their own belongings. Teach them your new
address and phone numbers right away. After the move, take the time
to show them around their new neighborhood.
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